Loose
Damon Darrell
ISBN: 9781432740825
Outskirts Press
Reviewed By Tara Hopkins
Official Apex Reviews Rating: 
Jamal has always had an insatiable appetite for women, and he's grown accustomed to satisfying them; however, when he meets Stephanie, all that soon changes...as his involvement with her deepens, Jamal is eventually introduced to her intriguing "lifestyle," as well as all the strangely fascinating carnal pleasures that come along with it. Before long, he finds himself yielding to circumstances he never before would have imagined himself in, and if he's not careful, he may not be able to get himself back out...
Loose is quite the intriguing read. In it, author Damon Darrell takes the reader on an eye-opening journey through the heart and mind of a man who struggles to balance a host of intriguing challenges - not the least of which is one that vexes dozens of hapless souls every day: the pursuit of sexual pleasure. Whether we want to admit it or not, we often wage losing battles against the temptations of the flesh, the reasons for which may vary - but are nonetheless real and compelling. In light of this fact, Loose is sure to engage many a reader who will readily identify with Jamal's physical and emotional struggles, as well as the lingering ramifications of his often misguided actions.
For readers who desire a raw, unfiltered look into the ultimate trappings of passion and carnal pursuits, Loose is an enlightening - and very telling - read.
Official Apex Reviews Interview: Damon Darrell (Loose)
Apex Reviews: Thanks for joining us for this interview, Damon. We're looking forward to sharing more about your book with our readers.
How did this eye-opening tale ultimately come to light?
Damon Darrell: Originally, I wanted to write something that guys could relate to. A lot of the scenarios in this book deal with real life issues that men face on a daily basis. A lot of times we make the wrong choices because we are distracted by temptations of the flesh. Some people find different ways to deal with those temptations, while others continue to battle the stringent rules of monogamy. In either case, we have to be prepared to accept the consequences that come with our choices.
AR: What's the significance of the title?
DD: It’s rather funny. "Loose" is a term that my Mom always used to describe a “promiscuous” person. Given the events in this book, I thought it would be the appropriate word for the title.
AR: Why do you think people so often succumb to the temptations of the flesh - even when they know they shouldn't?
DD: I think that it’s human nature to test boundaries. If you tell a child not to touch a hot stove, most likely they will touch it anyway. As adults, I think that concept of “I’m going to do it anyway” still lingers. I also believe that there is a certain degree of selfishness that dictates what a person will do and won’t do. A selfish person will do whatever they want without thinking about whom they hurt in the process. An unselfish person will think about how their actions will affect others.
AR: Is sexual addiction more widespread than we realize?
DD: I think that everyone enjoys sex. It’s one of nature’s most beautiful and natural things. I think that some sexual appetites are more aggressive than others. If we take a step back into history, we would see that society made provisions for men to have multiple wives and concubines to satisfy their physical desires. In today’s culture, women are more independent and are just as aggressive when it comes to sex and “getting theirs.” Another added dynamic is the commercialization of sex. Let’s face it. Sex sells. Every time that you turn on the television it’s there. It’s in clothing ads, alcohol ads, videos, sports, video games. More public exposure to sex is bound to have an impact on society.
AR: Do you think people are meant to be monogamous in relationships?
DD: I think that depends on the individual. A person needs to be comfortable with themselves to realize that they are not missing out on anything elsewhere. Too many times people become bored, curious, or simply cannot resist temptation long enough to stay committed. It’s important for two people to discuss the boundaries and limitations of their relationship from the beginning. I believe that some people have no problem being monogamous. I also believe that some people have no problem with “sharing” in their relationship. The key is communication. Whether you plan to be monogamous or not, the relationship will not work unless everyone is on the same page.
AR: What kinds of responses has the book generated thus far?
DD: I have received many great reviews in such a short time! Some readers were shocked at things that went on in the book and were very intrigued. All responses have been very positive. Most people that I’ve spoken to have said that they kept trying to put the book down but couldn’t. I’ve also found that Loose has crossed genders and races. It feels good knowing that you have touched a subject that a wide variety of audiences can relate to.
AR: How has your publishing experience been thus far with Outskirts Press?
DD: I must say that my first experience with Outskirts Press has been a pleasant one. I’ve learned a lot about self-publishing during the process. I’m happy with the end results. I was fortunate enough to have a smooth progression through the production of my first book.
AR: What are your future writing/publishing aspirations?
DD: I’ve actually been quite busy working on multiple projects including an urban drama titled The Last Days of Diego Black and Learning to Walk on Water, a book promoting self-awareness. I’m also working on a script for an upcoming stage play. As far as publishing, don’t be surprised if you see my titles emerge under my own publishing company.
AR: How can our readers learn more about you and your ongoing efforts?
DD: Readers can visit my website at www.damondarrell.com. I encourage them to visit the site frequently for information about book signings, contests, promotions, and also to find out what’s new with the iCare campaign, a program created to help those in need. Readers can also join the Damon Darrell Book Club right from my site. Book Club members get special offers, so make sure that you join soon!
AR: How can they contact you directly?
DD: I can be reached via email at damon@damondarrell.com. And yes, you will get a live response from me! Press kits and review copies are available upon request.
AR: Any final thoughts you'd like to share?
DD: I’d like a moment to thank Apex Reviews for having me. I’d also like to thank all of the readers that have supported my efforts. I look forward to providing you with lots of entertaining books and plays in the future. Thanks Again!
AR: Thanks again, Damon, and best of continued success to you in all your endeavors!