Apex Reviews: Dywane, thanks for giving us the pleasure of reviewing Shattered Souls. We truly appreciate it.All
of the friends endure daily pain lingering from their tortured past
until each of their lives eventually reaches a tragic climax.
Thankfully, they experience real, lasting healing - but what of the
millions of others who aren't so fortunate? What possible hope
couldthey continue to carry in wishing for a better life everyday?Dywane Birch:
There is really no easy answer for this. It is extremely unfortunate
that there are many people who do not experience real, lasting healing.
However, the bottom line is: Every day is a choice. We can choose to
dwell in our pasts and allow our hurts and pains and disappointments to
keep us stuck in self-destructive patterns of behavior; we can hold
onto it to keep us imprisoned in that victim-stance mentality in which
we blame and justify all of our negative behaviors and unhealthy
choices for our current lives. Or we can seek salvation by no longer
holding onto blame and guilt that doesn't belong to us. The past can't
be changed. Yesterday is gone. Today is here. And the only thing we
can, at this very moment, change is what and how we feel about
ourselves. We can use our pasts as a way to measure where we've been,
where we are today, and where we would like to be in our lives
tomorrow. Our pasts can either be our stumble-blocks, our crutches, or
our stepping stones. It's a matter of choice, and perception. I know,
for many, it's easier said than done. But, through faith, all things
are possible.
AR: Our reviewer
commented that your experience in counseling teens lended a palpable
humanity to the characters in the book. How has it personally affected
you to witness such destructive forces operating in these children's
lives with relative impunity?DB: Let me see. I don't
know that I can honestly say that I've been personally affected or not.
I do know that socially and professionally, those experiences taught me
to accept people for where they're at in their lives, recognizing that
their perceptions of life and love and the world around them are their
realities; that what we think we see isn't always what it is. Sometimes
we have to not only scratch beneath the surface, but dig a little
deeper in order to get to the core of ones hurts and pains in order to
gain understanding.
AR: In the same vein, is any of your own personal experience from childhood also reflected in the book?DB: Yes, there are splashes of me in the book. But, I'll never tell. ****smiling****
AR:
What improvements would you suggest could be made in the system (Child
Protective Services, the criminal justice system, etc.) that would
prevent more children from having to suffer in foster homes the way
that Tee did?DB: This is a complicated question with
probably a thousand-and-one answers. But, if I had to pick one answer,
I'd suggest that caseworkers be more diligent in monitoring out-of-home
placements, ensure that each child is engaging in either in-home or
individual counseling services, and to follow-up with concerns
presented and/or reported. All allegations should be taken seriously
and properly investigated.
AR:
After Brit confronts Bryce over molesting him when they were kids, he's
finally able to have a cathartic, cleansing cry. How important do you
think that it is to the overall healing process?DB: I
believe it's an extremely important and powerful process. Emotional
purging can allow us to rid ourselves of toxic feelings that keep us
chained to self-hate, self-degradation, and self-destruction.
AR: You actually self-published Shattered Souls
years before it was re-released by Strebor Books. Describe for our
readers what your experience was like in going from self-published to
traditional publication.DB: Although
Shattered Souls
was re-released under Strebor Books, I still self-publish other works;
so, for me, I still consider myself a self-published author who just
happened to have been blessed with an opportunity to share
Shattered Souls
with a larger audience thanks to Strebor. But, to honestly answer your
question, I believe it was timing. In 2005, I was asked to be a
contributor to Zane's anthology,
Breaking the Cycle,
which won the 2006 NAACP Image Award for outstanding literary fiction,
then in March of the same year, I was offered a contract for the
re-release of
Shattered Souls, and a contract for its sequel,
From My Soul to Yours.
I'll admit I did have some separation anxiety. How could I not? I breathed life into
Shattered Souls,
I birthed it, it's my baby, and I was initially very nervous about
letting go. But I knew it was time, and Zane believed it was time many
years ago, but I wasn't ready. But, now I am. So, here I am.
***smiling***
AR: What's the main message you want readers to take away from the book?DB:
I'd like readers to walk away understanding that we are all responsible
for what we say and do around children. Whether you're in that child's
life for a second, a minute, an hour or a lifetime, you are shaping and
molding their hearts and minds. Children are like sponges and soak in
everything that they become exposed to. When we mistreat children, when
we disrespect them, and degrade them, and abuse them, and neglect them,
we (either directly or indirectly) become responsible for their
belief-systems about life, and their perceptions of themselves. And
they potentially become adults who will carry the baggage, the scars,
and the burdens of their childhood experiences.
AR: We noticed that a sequel to Shattered Souls is in the works for 2008 -care to give our readers a little "sneak peek" as to what it's about?DB: Sure. The sequel,
From My Soul to Yours,
actually releases November 6, 2007, and it basically brings readers
back into the lives of Indy, Chyna, Britton and Tee, three years later.
Readers will become better acquainted with Sarina and her increasingly
unstable world of paranoia. And there is a new character with a
mysterious past who comes on the scene to try to manipulate events
among the friends, but she ends up getting caught in her own trap.
There's a lot of drama, splashes of sex, and is full of Indy's crazy
antics. ***laughing*** Over all, I think readers will find it to be a
very interesting and, hopefully, entertaining read.
AR: Any final thoughts you'd like to leave with our readers?DB:
Yes. I'd like to say thank you to everyone who has supported (or will
support) my literary endeavors. It is truly because of the readers that
I remain inspired to write. So…thank you, thank you, thank you!
And I'd like to give a very special thanks to Apex Reviews for reviewing
Shattered Souls,
and extending this wonderful interview. I am truly appreciative of your
kind words, encouragement and support. Until the next time…peace, love,
harmony & happy reading!
AR: Thanks again, Dywane, and best of continued success to you in all your endeavors.