So Why Have You Never Been Married? - Carl Weisman
So Why Have You Never Been Married? Carl Weisman ISBN: 9780882823263 New Horizon Press Reviewed By Allena Tapia
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Carl Weisman comically points out at the very beginning of this study
that 'I am not a doctor, nor do I attempt to play one in this book,' he
gifts to the curious a clear, careful study of men over the age of 40
who, for a variety of reasons, have never been married. With careful
and purposeful research, Weisman explores the question of older,
unmarried men from two different standpoints: the man who is wondering
what is wrong with him, and the woman who is wondering the same thing.
Augmented
with census data, solid citations, and a conversation-based
investigation, Weisman offers insight on the subject with a careful
explanation of his methodology, a broad sampling of men, and a
sometimes ribald honesty.
So Why Have You Never Been Married?
goes far beyond such platitudes as 'finding the right one' and clears
up misconceptions and myths about the unmarried man. In his subjects'
own words, Weisman explores the ideas, beliefs, and values of marriage,
touching on subjects such as fear of infidelity and open marriages via
conversations that are sometimes amusing, sometimes depressing, and
often sexually-charged.
So Why Have You Never Been Married?
surveys whether the single life is worth it, whether there are any
regrets, and what the future may hold for those looking to bypass
marriage. A fast read due to its conversational tone, Weisman’s
insightful work also offers probing questions, a vast, solid sampling,
and an ending that provides helpful quotes in the subjects' own words.